Alsalam alikom wa ra7mat Allah wa barakatoh
For the past week, dozens of things happened... some where bad, some where great.. al 7amd lellah for both.
Today, I found an article that lists 52 tips to reveal the stress (or to avoid it)..
I picked 15 points:
Alsalam alikom wa ra7mat Allah wa barakatoh
For the past week, dozens of things happened... some where bad, some where great.. al 7amd lellah for both.
Today, I found an article that lists 52 tips to reveal the stress (or to avoid it)..
I picked 15 points:
- Do nothing which, after being done, leads you to tell a lie.
- Practice preventive maintenance. Your car, appliances, home, and relationships will be less likely to break down/fall apart "at the worst possible moment.
- Procrastination is stressful. Whatever you want to do tomorrow, do today; whatever you want to do today, do it now.
- Plan ahead. Don't let the gas tank get below one-quarter full; keep a well-stocked "emergency shelf" of home staples; don't wait until you're down to your last bus token or postage stamp to buy more; etc.
- Allow 15 minutes of extra time to get to appointments. Plan to arrive at an airport one hour before domestic departures
- Simplify, simplify, simplify. . .
- Make friends with non-worriers. Nothing can get you into the habit of worrying faster than associating with chronic worrywarts.
- When the stress of having to get a job done gets in the way of getting the job done, diversion - a voluntary change in activity and/or environment - may be just what you need.
- Learn to live one day at a time.
- Do something for somebody else.
- Become more flexible. Some things are worth not doing perfectly and some issues are fine to compromise upon.
- Eliminate destructive self-talk: "I'm too old to. . .," "I'm too fat to. . .," etc.
- Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before doing something or saying anything that could make matters worse
- Have a forgiving view of events and people. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world.
- Have an optimistic view of the world. Believe that most people are doing the best they can.
Alsalam alikom wa ra7mat Allah wa barakatoh
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